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The most common reason for forgetting names is failing to! [7 w, D6 s, f [+ y6 O4 Q8 M3 Z
focus on the moment of introduction, so you never hear& C& h4 x3 x2 T! X e( ]- e
them in the first place. You are too busy thinking about what4 A: G8 `; q. C
you're going to say next or worrying about what others will
0 t$ L( y {: n( z1 j, ithink of you.
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8 [" T, `) Z9 l+ X) t& Z5 PUse the following 5-second strategy to remember first, g; [) Y1 X$ x3 {( h: ?
names:" M! |4 v, ` A! | O4 ?( r
1) The first second: Focus on the moment of introduction.2 W/ S) Z3 i) W4 E: y$ g/ M
2) The second second: Don't think about what to! v" Z$ g4 g; B1 r3 G$ _* n8 L
say—listen for the name.
0 C4 P; b3 L6 n4 d' ?3) The third second: Repeat the name aloud.
6 R3 ]/ }$ ^ u3 V& R4) The fourth second: Think of someone you know2 i" i: ]/ }& Y2 z. q, t$ j1 y) ^
with the same name.1 u0 g/ V u) m* A% T
5) The fifth second: Use the name during and at the0 C# \0 Z0 K7 U" Y/ p
end of the conversation.
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; x! F, j a4 W r---Don Gabor <<How to start a conversation and make friends>> |
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